Get what you've been given..

is not asking much in her yet to be found partner...just want someone to listen to the crap things I have to say and my crapping mood swings

This is what's on my twitter and fb.....

I had supper with an old friend. An old friend that I can speak my inner thoughts on relationships etc....

In the middle of our conversations, that statement popped up, I end it ... is it so difficult dude??

I suppose, it's a question that has no direct answer, Could be easy for some, could be difficult for others and unfortunately I fall into the latter category...sigh....

Well, we can't possibly have all our wishes come true right? If they do, how dull life will be...

Another interesting story came up from my friend last night. It's about a friend of her husband, who visited them quite sometime ago.While watching my friend and her husband talking, he mumbled about how when we were younger our choices in our spouse was so rigid.

His, was quite a list and one of it is pretty. I guess pretty is a very subjective adjectives.. It can be pretty to his eyes, or pretty like is an envy to other dudes or could be both.

After 14years of marriage, all this friend could say was, I can only speak to my wife about the kids.

How our choices in finding spouses when it comes to look, sizes, level of education, family background and many other facts plays an important role in finding our otherhalfs.

As someone commented to me once...

Mas, you will get it like how the rest of us got it, get what you've been given...